COMPLETE SHADES OF HONESTY.

So on Monday Angela my friend who works at 106.3WE FM asked if I would be a guest on her show to talk about sex in light of Fifty Shades of Grey. For those who haven’t read the book (I have the trilogy), it is an over glorified more explicit Mills and Boons book (girls and some boys remember?) focusing on the world of Sadomasochism. As over-glorified and as cheesy as it could get, it clearly struck a chord with people worldwide even above other books in the same genre making the New York Best Seller List! There is even a film adaptation in the works (I’m not sure the actors they have shortlisted can bring the much needed heat to the screen…*shrugs shoulders*). Anyway, the angle that she wanted to talk about had to do with wives having their sexual...

PARTNERSHIP IN BUSINESS

Collaborative effort pays off twice as much only if we understood how to harness this potential. Partnerships are like a marriage; two imperfect strangers who take a giant leap of faith together (well at least most times) to achieve a common purpose. A lot of people, who go into business especially this side of the world, insist on going it alone; most of the time for good reason. The cons of partnerships are neck to neck with the pros which make it dicey and an unattractive means to own a business. However, there is nothing impossible if you put your mind to it. The most rewarding aspect of a partnership is covering up for the lapses of the other party and knowing that there is a capable hand overseeing the business. In an era that it is becoming increasingly...

A SOMEWHAT REJOINDER: SEX IN MARRIAGE

A SOMEWHAT REJOINDER: SEX IN MARRIAGE So a couple of days after I had posted the main article, I ran into a reader of the blog. He had read the recent post but had a very different view on the subject. I however told him I noticed that he had left no response to the article; which wasn’t good. By the time he finished talking, I realised why he hadn’t written any thing….he had quite a lot to say. I have decided to reproduce what he said and hopefully maintain the integrity of his view. The whole idea of writing is to put my ideas and views out there and hope it is enough to generate a conversation and an exchange of views. I wish he had. My view is that behind the bedroom door anything goes; as long as both parties are in agreement. He approached my view from...

SEX IN MARRIAGE

I really find it unfortunate to write on this topic. I mean the way marriage is touted like the end all, you’ld think that a huge chunk of heaven is going to be had. Alas like most aspects of life, marriage has its own share of the trials and tribulations and in more recent times; the marriage bed. Pity! If there was ever a situation that should be no holds barred; it is the marriage bed but most spouses especially women; will never reach their full potential sexually. One might argue that sex is overrated yes it is but it is rated nonetheless. There are various tragedies playing out behind bedroom doors and I will attempt to discuss the most prevalent ones I have heard about. SITUATION ONE: Prior to marriage, the couple had an active varied sex life. After...

A BED OF ROSES

Unfortunately we have been designed to need, want, depend and long for a significant other to ‘complete’ us. From the time our hormones kick in till they let us down, put us in trouble or make us delirious; we are on the prowl for who can fill that void and ache we feel somewhere inside of us. Majority of us have bungled this amazing mission of our lives. A number of unfair factors led to this sorry state of affairs. I say ‘unfair factors’ because as pawns in this game of chess called life; we are often clueless on which move to make, who and what to checkmate or even decide if that was a wise move. Invariably, this struggle, background, experiences, expectations shape us and often jade us. We then carry baggage with us around, harbouring mini-monsters...

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