THE THIRD METRIC

From as far back as I can remember the dummy that I had to work my fingers to the bones as the only way to success; I bought it hook, line and sinker. It only pointed out the pros; money and success. Who wouldn’t want that? However, it forgot to point out the cons which I had to learn myself. Living in a high pressure world and its expectations, makes you strive. The world also measures your success by what you acquire, what you can do with the money (usually for your interest) and how much you have in your bank account. Then your life begins to disappear into this black hole of work, busyness, more, distraction and disconnect from self, family, friends and what is truly important. You don’t notice but those who care and surround you do. ...

SOLO LOVING

There are variations of this name: some call it-self service, masturbation, me-time; etc. I have found this act hilarious to say the least. I mean lying down, standing or what ever assumed position ALONE doing things to yourself that have been designed for the opposite sex to help you out with. Like seriously, it is a form of anti-social behaviour! Women using all manner of tools to achieve some sort of sexual release (surprisingly a lot swear by me-time). There is always an excuse, reason or loophole for the man in any given dicey issue. In fact for a man masturbation is considered part of his growing sexual experience as he is expected to jerk off by himself sometime; soap being the favourite aid. There has been huge controversy on the ‘rightness or...

RAINBOW FRIENDSHIPS

I went to a boarding school. At that stage I had no conception of whether it was boarding school or day school that I would prefer in a manner of speaking. Cast your mind back for those of you that went to boarding schools. It was interesting how friendships formed. These were tricky. It was a time of self discovery, awareness and perception. Kids at whatever age are just mean but they learned it from somewhere; if not how did kids know that they could be snobbish ie choosing their friends based on how they looked, provisions, car that dropped them off at school, tales of summer holidays, and even the state a person lived in. The worst type of friendship as I soon discovered, was to be in was a tripartite one. There would always be a 2 against 1 situation. Three...

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